Jun
03
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marriage infidelity
There is no problem in this world that has no solution. The solution may not come in search of you. You have to work for it. Problems in marriage are also mostly like that, they may fester and kill a marriage, but proper nursing can heal the wound admirably.
Marriages are made in Heaven, it is said. But realities of life come in the way to send it hell bound. In some cases, the partners talk it out and solve their little misunderstandings. But in serious cases, a marriage family counselor may be the only savior. In most cases, they succeed to tie the frayed yarns together.
Marriage is a continuous journey. Nurturing it is a full time job. We respect couples who have lived together for many years, but many of us fail to emulate them. What are the reasons for this? The mostly quoted reasons are infidelity, lack of communication and understanding, distance between the partners, neglect, abuse, broken trust or simply boredom.
Sometimes things simply get out of hand and the partners decide to part. But I would like to advise you that there is professional help available. Professional marriage family counselors can actually stop divorce, even if the couple is in the brink of it. However, for a variety of reasons, it has been found that many people are reluctant to approach them.
I told you that marriage is a long journey together. As in the case of any other field, there are special tools to work on it. Books written by renowned marriage family counselors can be eye openers to people who are in the blind alley. Some counselors run e-mail services into which you can sign in. In this technology driven age, there are CDs and such material on the subject for you to refer.
A successful route towards saving marriage is attending marriage fitness camps, which, in recent years, have saved many marriages from breaking up. These televised camps offer one-on-one phone sessions, question and answer conferences, live seminars and make the couple do homework assignments. People who join in are given audio leaning systems, marriage fitness workbook and journals. The timeframe is set for the couple to work out a solution.
The charges levied for these stop divorce camps are negligible when compared to the blissful marriage experience you may gain from the camp. The homework assignments that the counselor gives the troubled couple help the partners come closer, because they have to complete the assignment together. It may actually be fun too.
The marriage fitness Tele-boot camp is the most convenient way to fight estrangement. The material would be delivered at your doorstep. You can talk to the counselor at a convenient time of yours. It is the best choice if one of the partners is unwilling to get counseling along with the other one.
Roberta Groche
http://www.articlesbase.com/relationships-articles/role-of-marriage-family-counseling-in-saving-marriages-694391.html
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Jun
27
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marriage retreat
Commercial for the FBC Marriage Retreat
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Jun
27
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infidelity
Watch this video for a demonstration of “How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity”. To complete the task, you will need:
Relationship radar
Good communication
Avoidance of temptation
Get started with the first step: Know the difference between a platonic friendship and an emotional affair: The line’s been crossed if there’s continual sexual tension, secrecy, or an emotional connection you don’t share with your partner.
For the complete guide, go to http://www.howcast.com/videos/223226-How-To-Prevent-Emotional-Infidelity
Also check out Howcast for other do it yourself videos from Equilibrio and more videos in the Adultery category.
How can you contribute? Create your own DIY guide at http://www.howcast.com/videos/new or apply to the Howcast Emerging Filmmakers Program at http://www.howcast.com/filmmakers/apply
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Jun
27
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http://www.relationshipanswer.com – Surviving Infidelity is a very serious issue in a lot of relationships. There are some common misconceptions about it. One of them is that it is mostly men who cheat. Not true, it is actually pretty evenly divided. A second misconception is that you cant possibly survive infidelity. That also is not true. Unfortunately most couples just really dont have the skills or the tool set to really understand what to do to repair an infidelity. So in that case its a good idea to find qualified therapist or clergy person to be of assistance because there are some very specific things you must do if you plan on surviving infidelity and rebuilding trust. Trust is the thing that is most damaged in an infidelity. Later on though, if you can work through the issues and really change your relationship for the better many people find that you actually end up with a better, much stronger relationship than you ever had to start with. Because a lot of the early mistakes and expectations that were not quite accurate get corrected and resolved and that is the important thing because remember the outcome you are looking for is to have a happy, safe, healthy, loving marriage.
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Jun
23
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marriage retreat
October’s not just about horror–sometimes there’s a comedy or two that slips through, and when Vince Vaughn’s involved, there’s a good chance laughs will follow. And this October, you’ll get to see Vince, hopefully, at his comedic best.
When four couples descend on resort in a beautiful tropical locale, one of the couples is there to work on their marriage. The other three are hoping for some fun in the sun, but much to their surprise, the resort’s therapy sessions are strictly mandatory. Very strictly. Here’s the trailer.
So is it a tropical beach party or a monsoon waiting to happen? Head on down to the comments section and keep it between the navigational buoys. Thanks for watching!
Couples Retreat Cast: Kristen Bell, Kristin Davis, Malin Akerman, Vince Vaughn, Jon Favreau, Jason Bateman, Faizon Love, Jean Reno
Couples Retreat movie trailer provided by Universal Pictures. Couples Retreat opens in US theaters on October 9th, 2009. Couples Retreat is directed by Peter Billingsley.
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Jun
23
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infidelity
Madcon with singer Sofian performing “Infidelity”. Track produced by Redrama, girl in the video is the fabolous ms. Triana Iglesias.
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Jun
23
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From the Oval Office to Hollywood homes. infidelities make headlines around the world. According to the Myth of Monogamy by Peggy Vaughan, 60 % of husbands and 40 % of wives will have an adulterous affair and 65% of those marriages will end in divorce. Infidelity can destroy even the strongest relationships. The betrayed partner is left with feelings of shame, guilt, and anger. These feelings can be extremely difficult to overcome, however, it is possible to emerge as a stronger couple with the support of family, friends, a therapist, and each other.
There are many reasons why someone has an affair. It can range from poor judgment and a lack of impulse control at the office with a co-worker to a more common search for an emotional connection. Whatever the reason the effect is devastation to the relationship. “Nothing rocks a person’s sense of self, trust, and marriage more than infidelity,” says Michelle Weiner-Davis, author of The Sex-Starved Marriage. “Infidelity leaves people questioning their sanity, as well as everything they believe to be true about their spouse, and about the viability of their marriage. Infidelity is crippling.”
Consider these 5 Reasons Why You Can Survive Infidelity:
1. RAW HONESTY. After all cards are on the table, the couple has an opportunity to create a new pathway to healing and growth. Honesty is about more than just not lying; it is also about not withholding relevant information.
2. EMOTIONAL NEEDS. The needs of each individual can now be truly discovered, and these needs will need to be met on a daily basis to keep the couple walking on the pathway to healing and growth.
3. ACCOUNTABLITY. Accountability is needed on a different level, which creates a sense of security and trust. This also includes letting your spouse know when you are attracted to someone else. This will keep it from being in secret, thus decreasing the opportunity to manifest into an inappropriate relationship.
4. COMMUNICATION. There is no way around it. When a couple decides to fight for their marriage, deep and intense communication emerges over time. The myth of what I dont know wont hurt me robs individuals of being able to act on facts.
5. REBUILT TRUST. According to Glen Westberry with Living in Freedom Everyday (L.I.F.E.) Ministries, rebuilding trust for the offended person is the most difficult part of the healing process because the offended person does not know what has been true and what has been a lie in their marriage. The offender thinks that forgiveness is the key and that it will make the relationship better. However, forgiveness is not for the offender, it is for the offended person. When that person forgives, it brings healing and it opens the door to rebuild trust and starts the journey to healing.
RESOURCES:
Weiner-Davis, M. (2003). The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple’s Guide. New York: Simon and Schuster.
Westberry, Glen. Living In Freedom Everyday Ministry (L.I.F.E.) Orlando, Florida.
Vaughan, P. (2003) The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition. New York: New Market Press.
About the Author: Janie Lacy, M.S. is a Mental Health Counselor who has a passion to reach out and help people grow and mature through difficult life situations. Janie has invested in the lives of others through public speaking, leadership training, educational instruction and small group ministry. Janie received her Masters of Science degree in Counseling Psychology through Palm Beach Atlantic University and her Bachelors of Science degree in Business Administration from the University of Central Florida, specializing in management. Her professional affiliations are with the American Counseling Association, the American Association of Christian Counselors, and the Florida Mental Health Counselors Association.
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Jun
13
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marriage retreat
Time to let momma and daddy go, You made a grown up decision, now deal with it!
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Jun
13
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infidelity
Me talking about the subject of infidelity on TV. www.jacquelinehellyer.com
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Jun
13
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marriage infidelity
The warning signs of infidelity include several changes in behavior, such as creating strife and disharmony in the house, avoiding eye contact and changing their physical appearance. Find out if a spouse is being unfaithful by opening communication with advice from the author of a marriage counseling book in this free video on relationships.
Expert: Joe Cuenco
Contact: www.married4ever.com
Bio: Joe Cuenco is the author of “Married For 5000 Years,” a research book that analyzes marriage.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
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