Jun
27

How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity

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Watch this video for a demonstration of “How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity”. To complete the task, you will need:

Relationship radar
Good communication
Avoidance of temptation

Get started with the first step: Know the difference between a platonic friendship and an emotional affair: The line’s been crossed if there’s continual sexual tension, secrecy, or an emotional connection you don’t share with your partner.

For the complete guide, go to http://www.howcast.com/videos/223226-How-To-Prevent-Emotional-Infidelity

Also check out Howcast for other do it yourself videos from Equilibrio and more videos in the Adultery category.

How can you contribute? Create your own DIY guide at http://www.howcast.com/videos/new or apply to the Howcast Emerging Filmmakers Program at http://www.howcast.com/filmmakers/apply

Duration : 0:2:23

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Jun
27

Surviving Infidelity

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http://www.relationshipanswer.com – Surviving Infidelity is a very serious issue in a lot of relationships. There are some common misconceptions about it. One of them is that it is mostly men who cheat. Not true, it is actually pretty evenly divided. A second misconception is that you cant possibly survive infidelity. That also is not true. Unfortunately most couples just really dont have the skills or the tool set to really understand what to do to repair an infidelity. So in that case its a good idea to find qualified therapist or clergy person to be of assistance because there are some very specific things you must do if you plan on surviving infidelity and rebuilding trust. Trust is the thing that is most damaged in an infidelity. Later on though, if you can work through the issues and really change your relationship for the better many people find that you actually end up with a better, much stronger relationship than you ever had to start with. Because a lot of the early mistakes and expectations that were not quite accurate get corrected and resolved and that is the important thing because remember the outcome you are looking for is to have a happy, safe, healthy, loving marriage.

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Jun
23

Madcon feat. Sofian “Infidelity”

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Madcon with singer Sofian performing “Infidelity”. Track produced by Redrama, girl in the video is the fabolous ms. Triana Iglesias.

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Jun
23

Tips to Survive Infidelity in Your Marriage

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From the Oval Office to Hollywood homes. infidelities make headlines around the world. According to the Myth of Monogamy by Peggy Vaughan, 60 % of husbands and 40 % of wives will have an adulterous affair and 65% of those marriages will end in divorce. Infidelity can destroy even the strongest relationships. The betrayed partner is left with feelings of shame, guilt, and anger. These feelings can be extremely difficult to overcome, however, it is possible to emerge as a stronger couple with the support of family, friends, a therapist, and each other.

There are many reasons why someone has an affair. It can range from poor judgment and a lack of impulse control at the office with a co-worker to a more common search for an emotional connection. Whatever the reason the effect is devastation to the relationship. “Nothing rocks a person’s sense of self, trust, and marriage more than infidelity,” says Michelle Weiner-Davis, author of The Sex-Starved Marriage. “Infidelity leaves people questioning their sanity, as well as everything they believe to be true about their spouse, and about the viability of their marriage. Infidelity is crippling.”

Consider these 5 Reasons Why You Can Survive Infidelity:

1. RAW HONESTY. After all cards are on the table, the couple has an opportunity to create a new pathway to healing and growth. Honesty is about more than just not lying; it is also about not withholding relevant information.

2. EMOTIONAL NEEDS. The needs of each individual can now be truly discovered, and these needs will need to be met on a daily basis to keep the couple walking on the pathway to healing and growth.

3. ACCOUNTABLITY. Accountability is needed on a different level, which creates a sense of security and trust. This also includes letting your spouse know when you are attracted to someone else. This will keep it from being in secret, thus decreasing the opportunity to manifest into an inappropriate relationship.

4. COMMUNICATION. There is no way around it. When a couple decides to fight for their marriage, deep and intense communication emerges over time. The myth of what I dont know wont hurt me robs individuals of being able to act on facts.

5. REBUILT TRUST. According to Glen Westberry with Living in Freedom Everyday (L.I.F.E.) Ministries, rebuilding trust for the offended person is the most difficult part of the healing process because the offended person does not know what has been true and what has been a lie in their marriage. The offender thinks that forgiveness is the key and that it will make the relationship better. However, forgiveness is not for the offender, it is for the offended person. When that person forgives, it brings healing and it opens the door to rebuild trust and starts the journey to healing.

RESOURCES:

Weiner-Davis, M. (2003). The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple’s Guide. New York: Simon and Schuster.

Westberry, Glen. Living In Freedom Everyday Ministry (L.I.F.E.) Orlando, Florida.

Vaughan, P. (2003) The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition. New York: New Market Press.

About the Author: Janie Lacy, M.S. is a Mental Health Counselor who has a passion to reach out and help people grow and mature through difficult life situations. Janie has invested in the lives of others through public speaking, leadership training, educational instruction and small group ministry. Janie received her Masters of Science degree in Counseling Psychology through Palm Beach Atlantic University and her Bachelors of Science degree in Business Administration from the University of Central Florida, specializing in management. Her professional affiliations are with the American Counseling Association, the American Association of Christian Counselors, and the Florida Mental Health Counselors Association.

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Jun
13

The Sex Coach talking about infidelity on TV

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jpg” align=”left”/>Me talking about the subject of infidelity on TV. www.jacquelinehellyer.com

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May
07

skunk anansie – infidelity

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love it

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Apr
30

Infidelity by TREY SONGZ

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Infidelity by TREY SONGZ – “Anticipation” with Lyrics:

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(Intro)
Verse 1
You love me like
Words can’t explain
For me to feel the same
Is all you wanna gain
You never claim
That the dollars made me change
But the models givin’ brain
Guess that could f*ck with your brain

Hurt your heart in the worst way
Never should have let you fall in the first place
But you’ve fallen, put your all in
Now you’re so high off love you don’t wanna get down

(Rap)
Most nights she aint sleep
Worried where I might or I might not be
Shesh! for the life for me
Man what a life I lead

(Chorus)
You kept me on this pedestal
No matter how much I let you down
(down x3) I let you down (down x3)
With all my infidelity
You loved me so incredibly
Inside I’ll fall apart
If you ever love someone instead of me
(instead of me )
So you deserve a better man
(instead of me, instead of me)

Clock won’t stop (tick, tock)
Her love is going, going, going ( by the minute)
Going, going, going (she keep giving)

But I know she can’t take it
Still her heart I keep breaking
So Ima let her love go
Cause I don’t deserve her love no more

Sad story
She mad for me
And mad at me
Sad that we
Can’t exude love
Not a true love
Cause it’s all screwed up

(Chorus)
You kept me on this pedestal
No matter how much I let you down
(down x3) I let you down (down x3)
With all my infidelity
You loved me so incredibly
Inside I’ll fall apart
If you ever love someone instead of me

(Rap)
How do you fix a love undone
How you even know if you’re fit to love someone
And when you decide to take that ride
Can you drive from the passengers side
One wheel in the middle
Four hands on it
Two sets of breaks
You decide to slam on it
God woman
Where the love go
Whip crash will you get whiplash
Sit back cause you won’t get sh*t back
But think if you tried to get what you jus had back
She mad at facts
And you can’t be mad at that
(You can’t be mad at that) x2

Whoa x5

(Clock won’t stop – tick, tock) x2

You kept me on this pedestal
No matter how much
I let you down
I let you down

Whoa

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