Jun
27
27
Marriage Retreat Commercial
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Commercial for the FBC Marriage Retreat
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Jun
27
27
How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity
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Watch this video for a demonstration of “How To Prevent Emotional Infidelity”. To complete the task, you will need:
Relationship radar
Good communication
Avoidance of temptation
Get started with the first step: Know the difference between a platonic friendship and an emotional affair: The line’s been crossed if there’s continual sexual tension, secrecy, or an emotional connection you don’t share with your partner.
For the complete guide, go to http://www.howcast.com/videos/223226-How-To-Prevent-Emotional-Infidelity
Also check out Howcast for other do it yourself videos from Equilibrio and more videos in the Adultery category.
How can you contribute? Create your own DIY guide at http://www.howcast.com/videos/new or apply to the Howcast Emerging Filmmakers Program at http://www.howcast.com/filmmakers/apply
Duration : 0:2:23
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Jun
27
27
Surviving Infidelity
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http://www.relationshipanswer.com – Surviving Infidelity is a very serious issue in a lot of relationships. There are some common misconceptions about it. One of them is that it is mostly men who cheat. Not true, it is actually pretty evenly divided. A second misconception is that you cant possibly survive infidelity. That also is not true. Unfortunately most couples just really dont have the skills or the tool set to really understand what to do to repair an infidelity. So in that case its a good idea to find qualified therapist or clergy person to be of assistance because there are some very specific things you must do if you plan on surviving infidelity and rebuilding trust. Trust is the thing that is most damaged in an infidelity. Later on though, if you can work through the issues and really change your relationship for the better many people find that you actually end up with a better, much stronger relationship than you ever had to start with. Because a lot of the early mistakes and expectations that were not quite accurate get corrected and resolved and that is the important thing because remember the outcome you are looking for is to have a happy, safe, healthy, loving marriage.
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Jun
23
23
Tips to Survive Infidelity in Your Marriage
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From the Oval Office to Hollywood homes. infidelities make headlines around the world. According to the Myth of Monogamy by Peggy Vaughan, 60 % of husbands and 40 % of wives will have an adulterous affair and 65% of those marriages will end in divorce. Infidelity can destroy even the strongest relationships. The betrayed partner is left with feelings of shame, guilt, and anger. These feelings can be extremely difficult to overcome, however, it is possible to emerge as a stronger couple with the support of family, friends, a therapist, and each other.
There are many reasons why someone has an affair. It can range from poor judgment and a lack of impulse control at the office with a co-worker to a more common search for an emotional connection. Whatever the reason the effect is devastation to the relationship. “Nothing rocks a person’s sense of self, trust, and marriage more than infidelity,” says Michelle Weiner-Davis, author of The Sex-Starved Marriage. “Infidelity leaves people questioning their sanity, as well as everything they believe to be true about their spouse, and about the viability of their marriage. Infidelity is crippling.”
Consider these 5 Reasons Why You Can Survive Infidelity:
1. RAW HONESTY. After all cards are on the table, the couple has an opportunity to create a new pathway to healing and growth. Honesty is about more than just not lying; it is also about not withholding relevant information.
2. EMOTIONAL NEEDS. The needs of each individual can now be truly discovered, and these needs will need to be met on a daily basis to keep the couple walking on the pathway to healing and growth.
3. ACCOUNTABLITY. Accountability is needed on a different level, which creates a sense of security and trust. This also includes letting your spouse know when you are attracted to someone else. This will keep it from being in secret, thus decreasing the opportunity to manifest into an inappropriate relationship.
4. COMMUNICATION. There is no way around it. When a couple decides to fight for their marriage, deep and intense communication emerges over time. The myth of what I dont know wont hurt me robs individuals of being able to act on facts.
5. REBUILT TRUST. According to Glen Westberry with Living in Freedom Everyday (L.I.F.E.) Ministries, rebuilding trust for the offended person is the most difficult part of the healing process because the offended person does not know what has been true and what has been a lie in their marriage. The offender thinks that forgiveness is the key and that it will make the relationship better. However, forgiveness is not for the offender, it is for the offended person. When that person forgives, it brings healing and it opens the door to rebuild trust and starts the journey to healing.
RESOURCES:
Weiner-Davis, M. (2003). The Sex-Starved Marriage: Boosting Your Marriage Libido: A Couple’s Guide. New York: Simon and Schuster.
Westberry, Glen. Living In Freedom Everyday Ministry (L.I.F.E.) Orlando, Florida.
Vaughan, P. (2003) The Monogamy Myth: A Personal Handbook for Recovering from Affairs, Third Edition. New York: New Market Press.
About the Author: Janie Lacy, M.S. is a Mental Health Counselor who has a passion to reach out and help people grow and mature through difficult life situations. Janie has invested in the lives of others through public speaking, leadership training, educational instruction and small group ministry. Janie received her Masters of Science degree in Counseling Psychology through Palm Beach Atlantic University and her Bachelors of Science degree in Business Administration from the University of Central Florida, specializing in management. Her professional affiliations are with the American Counseling Association, the American Association of Christian Counselors, and the Florida Mental Health Counselors Association.
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Jun
13
13
Marriage & Divorce : Infidelity Warning Signs
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The warning signs of infidelity include several changes in behavior, such as creating strife and disharmony in the house, avoiding eye contact and changing their physical appearance. Find out if a spouse is being unfaithful by opening communication with advice from the author of a marriage counseling book in this free video on relationships.
Expert: Joe Cuenco
Contact: www.married4ever.com
Bio: Joe Cuenco is the author of “Married For 5000 Years,” a research book that analyzes marriage.
Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
Duration : 0:2:34
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Jun
03
03
MARRIAGE RETREAT
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Marriage enrichment class held at Salt Lake City, Utah which helps couples cope with deployment stress and being apart. … Produced by Sgt. Kirk Bell and 1Lt Michael Meyer.
High Quality Download available:
http://www.veoh.com/channels/ar-medcom
Duration : 0:3:54
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May
07
07
Pastor John Wilkerson at Marriage Retreat 2010 w/Pastor Schaap
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Pastor and Mrs. John Wilkerson were guest speakers at this year’s Marriage Retreat hosted by Pastor and Mrs. Jack Schaap. More than 200 couples heard great teaching on strengthening and building marriages. Pastor John Wilkerson did a phenomenal job, and the Wilkersons are planning on speaking again at next year’s Marriage Retreat!
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Duration : 0:1:42
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Apr
30
30
Marriage Retreat Promo
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A commercial for our Marriage Retreat.
With Marty Kaiser, Shiela Kaiser, Roy Shrum and Teresa Shrum.
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Apr
30
30
Marriage Retreat Promo
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With Marty Kaiser, Shiela Kaiser, Roy Shrum and Teresa Shrum.
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Apr
30
30
Marriage after an affair: How to regain trust after infidelity
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Marriage after an affair: How to regain trust after infidelity
Affairs don’t have to be fatal to a marriage, although they often are. Esther Perel, couples therapist and author of Mating In Captivity, says an affair can actually lead to a new and wonderful relationship.
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Duration : 0:4:43
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